{"id":3350,"date":"2026-04-15T10:13:32","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T07:13:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.styng.net\/fi\/?p=3350"},"modified":"2026-04-15T10:13:32","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T07:13:32","slug":"kylla-mies-kestaa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.styng.net\/fi\/blogi\/kylla-mies-kestaa\/","title":{"rendered":"Kyll\u00e4 mies kest\u00e4\u00e4"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8221;Kyll\u00e4 mies kest\u00e4\u00e4&#8221; on sanonta, jonka olen kuullut el\u00e4m\u00e4ni aikana useita kertoja. &#8221;Miehet ei itke&#8221; on toinen sanonta, jonka olen kuullut useasti, jopa edesmenneilt\u00e4 vanhemmiltani. Molemmat ovat paskapuhetta, siit\u00e4 huolimatta, ett\u00e4 Timo Rautiainen &amp; Trio Niskalaukaus -yhtyeen Nyt on mies! -kappaleessa lauletaan &#8221;j\u00e4rki l\u00e4htee, \u00e4\u00e4ni j\u00e4\u00e4 \/ veri t\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 nielun, suun \/ kyll\u00e4 mies kivun kest\u00e4\u00e4 \/ mutta ei h\u00e4pe\u00e4\u00e4 \/ nyt on mies&#8221;.<br><br>Fyysist\u00e4 v\u00e4kivaltaa ei kest\u00e4 kukaan. Henkisen v\u00e4kivallan saattaa mies kest\u00e4\u00e4 hiljaisesti, mutta mieleen sattuu ja j\u00e4\u00e4 muistiin ikuisesti. Vaikka tietoinen mieli ei niit\u00e4 muistaisikaan, niin muistij\u00e4lki kaikesta j\u00e4\u00e4.<br><br>Kun lapsi j\u00e4tet\u00e4\u00e4n leikkien ulkopuolelle, niin mieli pahoittuu. Samoin k\u00e4y aikuiselle, jonka p\u00f6yd\u00e4st\u00e4 tuolit vied\u00e4\u00e4n. Kyll\u00e4 mies kest\u00e4\u00e4 on paskapuhetta.<br><br>Er\u00e4s kaverini sanoi minulle kerran, ett\u00e4 &#8221;sulle voi sanoa, sin\u00e4 kest\u00e4t&#8221;. Sellaiset kaverit muuttuvat tuttaviksi, joihin pyrin pit\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4n et\u00e4isyytt\u00e4. Kohtelias ja kaikki osapuolet huomioon ottava kommunikaatio on taitolaji.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8221;Kyll\u00e4 mies kest\u00e4\u00e4&#8221; on sanonta, jonka olen kuullut el\u00e4m\u00e4ni aikana useita kertoja. &#8221;Miehet ei itke&#8221; on toinen sanonta, jonka olen kuullut useasti, jopa edesmenneilt\u00e4 vanhemmiltani. Molemmat ovat paskapuhetta, siit\u00e4 huolimatta, 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